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I was talking with Dr. Robby the other evening and I found that not only do we have a relationship with our partner but with other things in life as well.  Now I felt for the better part of my life that I would one day be rescued by a Night in Shining Armour.  Have any of you thought the same thing?  If only this happened that would make me happy.  If my partner really knew me, why am I not getting what I want out of this relationship?  I titled this particular post mirror, mirror on the wall for a really good reason.  When you get up do you look at yourself in the mirror and see what you thought you'd see?  Do you really see yourself?  I thought I did.  Now I want to share with all of you what I use to see, not what I wanted the world to see, but what I saw and the thoughts that came to me.  I thought, well if I was smarter, happier, had nicer smile, was a little bit thinner, didn't feel so tired all of the time, life would be so different.  If my partner and I got along better, understood each other like we use to and our children did not argue, life would be great!

I needed to understand that there are many types of relationships first of all.  I had no clue there were so many.  To list some of them in case you are wondering here they are: we have relationships with our partner, our children, our families that many of us grew up in.  We also have relationships with our own life, our destiny if you will.  Some others I found out by becoming aware of them with the help of Dr. Robby.  We have relationships, with money, pets, our homes, our vehicles, at our jobs and I could add more but this is merely to get you in the mindset of what type of relationships are out there.  Some of us use nicotine, alcohol, drugs, or food to sooth what we are missing within our own relationship with ourselves or some form of other external fix like drama, victimhood, or we merely bury ourselves in the every day events that occur without doing anything to really change our own life. 

Sure it is easy to complain about how awful our lives are and we so easily blame others instead of taking responsibilty for what we really want to see in our own mirror. 

I can look in my own mirror and love who I am now because I choose to find out who I really am, what I need and what I want in order to be happy.  Some may think great this is just another post about how one person changed her life.  This is about taking back your power and healing yourself and becoming the real you again.  I, myself was hooked on drama, co-dependant, dysfunctional as they come, addicted to running for everyone else and thinking that was helping me.  It was not helping me one bit.  It was destroying me. 

So now that I am healthy, strong, and take care of myself first, my life (my relationship with myself), my partner, my children and others has drastically changed for the better.  I love my life now and I love helping people get to know themselves and finding their true destiny.

If anyone has a comment or any questions feel free to respond or email me and I will be happy to assist you.

Warm Regards,

LeslieRCT 

Hello, I would like to share with everyone that I use to wonder why every time I got involved in a relationship that started out great and eventually went down hill from there, why?  Well I would find myself blaming myself and/or blaming the other person and simply moving on.  After a few relationships like that I thought well I wear my heart on my sleeve and then get taken advantage of.  I then starting thinking that the perhaps if I tried harder, did more, put my partners needs before my own, that would work.  I am here to tell you that for well over 20 years, I played this silly game which did absolutely nothing for me except burn me out.  Yes that is right, I was burnt out from my relationship and pretty much everything else in my life.  I found myself in such turmoil inside that all I wanted was to be happy!  Was that too much to ask?  How many Mr. Wrongs or Mr. Rights would I have to date to finally meet the ONE?  I have learnt the tools that are needed in figuring all this out.  I was working at another job, when I met this fellow and his partner.  I began sharing with them that I was so miserable and wanted to know how to get out of the mess I had found myself in.  Well now, let me introduce you to Dr. Robby.  I was quite intrigued as time went on as to what Dr. Robby was saying to me.  If you, yourself find that any of this twigs anything in you, I would love to provide you with the tools I have learnt in getting out of suffering in silence.  I dedicate this site to everyone and anyone around the world that wants to live the life of their dreams and wants the relationship they truly desire and deserve. 

Feel free to email me if anyone has any questions and I will personally guide you along. 

Warm Regards,

LeslieRCT